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Keeping mum's memory alive - Holli's Special Memories Tribute

08 Oct 2024

Holli began fundraising for Sue Ryder in 2017 to mark twenty years since her mum's death. She has now raised over £25,000 for the services that cared for her mum.

I was just 12 when my mum died, but I remember how amazing the nurses and staff were. They really do everything they possibly can to make the patients and family members feel comfortable and at ease at some of the hardest points of their lives.

Over the years, with the support of my family and friends, I have run a half marathon, held beer festivals, hosted bakes sales and coffee mornings. We even organised a virtual lockdown 2.6-mile daily challenge which included walking, running, cycling, and even horse riding, to get the miles in.

My annual pub quiz

Holli at her Christmas quiz night in 2023

My annual Christmas pub quiz night at the Ploughman Pub in Werrington, has really taken off; locals, friends and family all come along and take part.

I try and make it fun and festive and do something a bit different every year – people say to me it wouldn’t be Christmas without my quiz.

People say to me it wouldn’t be Christmas without my quiz.

It just keeps getting bigger and bigger. I started with around ten teams and at my last event I had 20 and managed to raise just over £1325 in just one evening.

People and local businesses are very generous and donate items for the quiz raffle too. I sometimes get given things throughout the year which I then auction off.

It’s really overwhelming that people keep supporting me year on year. I guess the sad thing is, I know I am not the only person who has known someone who has been cared for at a Sue Ryder hospice and for that reason what I do touches the hearts of many people.

I know I am not the only person who has known someone who has been cared for at Sue Ryder Thorpe Hall Hospice and for that reason what I do touches the hearts of many people.

Aiming for £30,000

I won’t stop fundraising and now I have reached £25,000, I just want to keep going tracking my target by £5,000 at a time. I enjoy fundraising and there is so much more I want to give; it means so much to me.

I don’t necessarily have huge plans. My quiz will always go on and I would like to do another half marathon after an injury stopped me doing my last big run. Whenever there is an opportunity to raise £100 here and there, I will. It all adds up and I know Sue Ryder will always need the support of local people like me getting behind them.

I am sure mum would be proud of what I have achieved but she was that type of person who hated being in the spotlight - I love how it helps keep her memory alive though.

I am sure mum would be proud of what I have achieved but she was that type of person who hated being in the spotlight - I love how it helps keep her memory alive though.

A big thank you

I would like to thank my sisters Kayley and Jayde, my partner Andy Simmo, plus all of my friends, family (even from across the pond in America), Nilesh from the Sue Ryder fundraising team, as well as work colleagues over the years who have been involved in, donated, and supported my events by attending and volunteering their time.

Through the tough and emotional times; the meltdowns during training runs; the tears and stress before events, as well as helping me to celebrate the successes, I couldn't have done it without them. I am so overwhelmed and grateful for this.

My Special Memories Tribute

Having an online tribute means there is no end date to what I can do.

Having an online tribute means there is no end date to what I can do. As well as tracking how much money I have raised, I can also share memories, photos and blogs. I can even light a candle on there to remember mum.

Photo of an older couple holding each other and smiling

Special Memories Tribute

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