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Keeping your home safe after a bereavement

When you’re grieving, looking after and repairing things around the house can be hard.  Grief makes it hard to think and can make you feel very tired. But when appliances relating to energy and water get worn out or broken, they can become dangerous.

Repairs and maintenance

Make sure you use reliable information and advice on how to keep yourself safe, such as:

A home you own

A home you rent

If you are renting, you may be able to ask your landlord to organise repairs and maintenance.

Trusted repairs and maintenance

Hiring qualified and trusted gas engineers, plumbers and electricians is important to keeping your home safe. If someone does not have the right training, they could make mistakes that put you and the people who live with you in danger.

Carbon monoxide

Appliances that burn gas, wood, oil or coal may give off carbon monoxide if they are broken or not fitted properly. This includes ovens, boilers, heaters, open fires, wood burners and more.

Carbon monoxide is a poisonous gas that can make you seriously ill. You cannot smell it.

Symptoms of carbon monoxide poisoning

If you have carbon monoxide poisoning, you might feel:

  • dizzy
  • sick (including actually being sick)
  • weak
  • confused
  • chest and muscle pain
  • shortness of breath
  • headache

The NHS has information on carbon monoxide poisoning.

Signs of a carbon monoxide leak

If you have a carbon monoxide leak you might see:

  • a yellow or orange flame on a gas appliance which should be blue
  • flames that burn weakly, slowly or go out, including the pilot light on your boiler
  • yellow or brown sooty marks on an appliance
  • lots of condensation in a room with the appliance

If you think you have a carbon monoxide leak, get everyone out of the house straight away and call the National Gas Emergency Helpline. This is a different number depending on which part of the UK you live in. See What to do in a gas emergency from the Gas Safe Register.

Damp and mould

Your home can become damp or mouldy for different reasons:

  • cold temperatures inside that cause condensation
  • water coming up from the ground
  • water coming in from another source, such as a leaking gutter, pipe or roof

Damp can cause problems with your breathing, your eyes and your skin. It can also be stressful and upsetting when parts of your home or belongings are damaged. We know this can be very hard to cope with when you’re facing all the practical and emotional challenges of grief and bereavement.

If you have damp and mould in your home:

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